Recently, I felt like I couldn’t breathe, move or think. I knew something had to give. So I gave myself the greatest gift a working mom can get: time.

Should I get remarried? When can I date again? What if I never want another relationship? So many questions... but you have the answers you need. Just listen to your inner wisdom and the answers will come to you. No one can decide any of these things except you. 

None of us are truly where we want to be, are we? All of us have something inside ourselves that we are searching for, working for, believing for. Something that will take us to a new level, to greater heights, to deeper depths. It could be anything.

Anxiety is a cruel thing. But the cruelty isn't just the physical symptoms. It's the constant fear that you're going to experience them that can crush you. 

Taking a second as a remarried widow to appreciate where I am in life and how far I've come.